Find friends not dating
Another good reason to join up is for the sheer diversity of what's on offer.
Maybe you always go for the same type of friend with benefits, or perhaps the problem is you're shy and always go for the easy option rather than being daring and taking a risk with someone you normally wouldn't go for.
Maybe you just got out of a long term relationship with someone and you now want to have fun without thinking too much.
Just test those waters before you deliver the knockout first message. In fact, research shows people are staying single for longer and settling down older.For young people, friends with benefits situations usually occur because one of them is in love and the other one is afraid of commitment or can’t get over their FOMO, Fear of Missing Out (on other girls or boys).But for 50 plus men and women, who are way more mature and who know themselves better, having a friend with benefits is often a choice that both sides are comfortable with.If you both share everything that normal friends do and on top of that, you have sex regularly, it basically means you do what normal romantic couples do.So even if seniors are wiser in terms of decision making, there is always a risk that one of you will eventually start developing strong feelings or start asking for a more stable relationship. Keep that in mind and most importantly, have safe sex!